HOW TO STRENGTHEN MARRIAGE TIES
Family, Marriage,
According to the Qur'an, the purpose of marriage is to attain the state of ‘sukun’, that is, calmness and peace, and this cannot be achieved through impulsive sexual gratification. Mutual love, affection, caring and dedication are important here - the foundation of a fulfilling and productive marriage relationship. Islam, as we know, teaches us to find a golden mean in everything. But how to strengthen marriage ties? Below are 8 important factors that will help strengthen the marriage bond according to the will of the Almighty. Each of the points is known and obvious to us, but for some reason we so often completely forget about them.
1. A positive outlook on things
Whatever happens in life, a Muslim should always have a positive, positive attitude towards it. We say: "Alhamdulillah" (Praise be to Allah) for everything that He gave us (or did not give).
2. Help
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) emphasized the importance of a man helping his wives, and Almighty Allah tells us about the need for a woman to be a friend and helper to her husband. If you learn to do this, you will never lose.
3. Loyalty
Muslims, both men and women, are ordered to be reliable, faithful and follow the example of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), because he is "Amin" - "faithful, trustworthy."
4. Respect
Do you want to be treated with respect? Then show respect yourself. This is mandatory for all Muslims in relation to all people and, of course, to a spouse.
5 fun
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) ran a race with his wife Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) to entertain and amuse her. She said: "At first I overtook him, but then, when I became heavier, he began to overtake me." Our Prophet told us to play with our wives and have fun with them.
5. Forgiveness
It is clear that this is one of the most important aspects of Islam. The one who does not forgive will not be forgiven, the one who does not show mercy will not deserve mercy himself. This is what the Almighty Creator tells us. We must learn to forgive each other in order to maintain a good relationship.
6. Time
Spend time together. Just go for a walk. Or take a bus tour. Go to visit friends or relatives, visit someone who is sick (you will receive a large reward for this). Keep an extra fast together on Mondays and Thursdays. And going on Hajj together is a great opportunity to give a “new start” to your married life.
7. Worship
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) often prayed with his wives, although the rooms where they lived were attached to the mosque. He told us not to turn our houses into cemeteries. It would be just wonderful if, following the Sunnah of our Prophet, we ourselves got up for the night tahajjud prayer and woke up our spouses.
So, these are how to strengthen marriage ties as in a Muslim culture. If you want to learn more about marriage or if you are looking for your soul mate, contract Bandhan Media, the oldest and largest Muslim matrimony in Bangladesh.
According to the Qur'an, the purpose of marriage is to attain the state of ‘sukun’, that is, calmness and peace, and this cannot be achieved through impulsive sexual gratification. Mutual love, affection, caring and dedication are important here - the foundation of a fulfilling and productive marriage relationship. Islam, as we know, teaches us to find a golden mean in everything. But how to strengthen marriage ties? Below are 8 important factors that will help strengthen the marriage bond according to the will of the Almighty. Each of the points is known and obvious to us, but for some reason we so often completely forget about them.
1. A positive outlook on things
Whatever happens in life, a Muslim should always have a positive, positive attitude towards it. We say: "Alhamdulillah" (Praise be to Allah) for everything that He gave us (or did not give).
2. Help
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) emphasized the importance of a man helping his wives, and Almighty Allah tells us about the need for a woman to be a friend and helper to her husband. If you learn to do this, you will never lose.
3. Loyalty
Muslims, both men and women, are ordered to be reliable, faithful and follow the example of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), because he is "Amin" - "faithful, trustworthy."
4. Respect
Do you want to be treated with respect? Then show respect yourself. This is mandatory for all Muslims in relation to all people and, of course, to a spouse.
5 fun
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) ran a race with his wife Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) to entertain and amuse her. She said: "At first I overtook him, but then, when I became heavier, he began to overtake me." Our Prophet told us to play with our wives and have fun with them.
5. Forgiveness
It is clear that this is one of the most important aspects of Islam. The one who does not forgive will not be forgiven, the one who does not show mercy will not deserve mercy himself. This is what the Almighty Creator tells us. We must learn to forgive each other in order to maintain a good relationship.
6. Time
Spend time together. Just go for a walk. Or take a bus tour. Go to visit friends or relatives, visit someone who is sick (you will receive a large reward for this). Keep an extra fast together on Mondays and Thursdays. And going on Hajj together is a great opportunity to give a “new start” to your married life.
7. Worship
Our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) often prayed with his wives, although the rooms where they lived were attached to the mosque. He told us not to turn our houses into cemeteries. It would be just wonderful if, following the Sunnah of our Prophet, we ourselves got up for the night tahajjud prayer and woke up our spouses.
So, these are how to strengthen marriage ties as in a Muslim culture. If you want to learn more about marriage or if you are looking for your soul mate, contract Bandhan Media, the oldest and largest Muslim matrimony in Bangladesh.
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কিভাবে বিবাহ বিচ্ছেদ এড়ানো সম্ভব?
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